Topic: Love
(I wrote this while I was on retreat with Adyashanti in Hendersonville, NC) Portals of Truth by Nicola Karesh Open to the good and bad To all of you pouring through The portals of experience… The essence of truth. Hold nothing … Continue reading →
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Some sources that supply relationship assistance for women talk about proceeding, yet what if you’re not prepared to progress? What if you still want to get your ex-husband back and also you’re not all set to end the relationship? If you ensure you still need the matrimony to carry on in spite of his weaknesses, at that point it is time to discover just how to obtain them back.
Steps on Precisely how to obtain Your Husband Back
1. Look at Things from His Point of view
After a break up or an especially lousy match, you might feel like you’re just putting up with them while he absolutely ignores your emotions. If you think that he’s repeatedly misunderstanding you, you could never ever determine that he feels you’re the same by having them.
Empathy is the very best tool you are able to use when you’re struggling to fix the partnership. If it’s tough for you to do this on your own, go over some self-help websites on males behavior. You may discover some insights that you never ever knew, and these may aid you recognize your male greater.
Believing that you understand your hubby effectively is even a misunderstanding that you really should prevent. By keeping an open mind, you may let go of all the misdirected expectations. They’s individual like you, and they might state lousy details he will perhaps bemoan later on.
2. Identify the Sources of the Break Up
It’s an agonizing procedure but there’s no substitute for profound self-questioning when you’re attempting to work out just how to get your husband back. Inquire yourself exactly what led to the break-up, as well as figure out a way to face it. The most frequent causes are financial worries, tension with children as well as resentment. The technique is to seek to face these concerns on your own so that you are able to take a personalized stand when it’s time for you and also your ex to have your talk.
Be ready to listen to your ex-mate when he talks about his thoughts on why you separated. If you insist that he’s wrong even when they’s just discussing his sensations, you will not acquire anywhere. Your viewpoint as well as his could differ when it pertains to determining the fundamental sources why your relationship fell short.
Introspecting would suggest staying away from each many other for a while. This is an advantage since you can make her fail to see you. The moment they has actually simmered down as well as considered the reasons of the break up, he could uncover that you’re not the one at fault. Feelings of self-condemnation and remorse are dynamic. If they admits to himself that he played a part in destroying the relationship, he can easily emerge as even more receptive to your efforts to obtain back all together.
3. Produced Solutions
All men desire to hear about resolutions greater than nearly anything else. If you have actually been striving to obtain them to speak with you again for the lengthiest time and also he at last agrees to assemble, do not pass the time by bringing up the last fight you had. Instead, present options as well as provide them in a calm means so that they realizes you’re serious about get your husband back.
If your talk turns out to be a reprise of your last battle, you will not be able to figure out how to obtain him back. You’ll be going back to square one. Just what you need to do is to stay focused on encouraging him to alter his mind about breaking up.
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 The New Energy Shift
Friday, April 13, 2012 marks the end of a particularly heavy feeling Mars Retrograde which began on January 23rd, 2012. When Mars is in retrograde, it’s difficult to initiate new projects and whatever attempts are made to move ahead are usually met with great resistance. It feels like being stuck in the mud while trying to push a boulder uphill, in short, like an impossible task.
Thankfully we’ve reached the end of both the Mars and Mercury retrogrades and will begin to see the energy lift dramatically over the next two months. It’s now time to take the ideas that you’ve had in mind for 2012 and make plans to launch them this year.
With this in mind, the best time to launch new projects this year begins in mid June 2012 and throughout the second half of this year. Use April and May to look over your goals and make plans on how best to launch the new career or business of your dreams as well as to look for a new home if it’s in the plans for this year.
LightWorkers: Heed the Call
We’ve now reached the Second Quarter of 2012, having just celebrated Spring Equinox in March and Easter in April. This marks the time of New Beginnings. The Mercury and Mars Retrogrades are over and we are experiencing a “rebirth” as we usher in the Age of Aquarius.
With this renewed energy, hope will arise in a burst of light and the possibilities of what we can create are limitless. With this potential,we must understand the importance of this time along with the realization of who we are. In brief…
We are the souls who have chosen to reincarnate at this time and we have come back here to be an instrumental force in the upcoming evolution.
In order to accomplish these mighty goals, it’s time to put forth all of the training that you’ve received and been preparing for over lifetimes. This means…
You are a Light Worker. This means it requires Work to bring in the Light.
In order to assist with the Shift in Energy and Consciousness, there are three things we must do:
1. Face the Dark
This includes the darkness inside each of us. We are beings of duality and it is important to come to terms with this duality and understand that we have the free will choice to make each thought, action and deed as positive and light bearing as possible in every moment. There are times we will stumble and fall. What matters is that we recognize that we will make mistakes. When we make mistakes, we will not let them define us, rather we will get back up and do our best to move forward and become stronger and better from what we have learned.
2. Face Our Fears
We choose to live in love with faith that each experience makes us stronger or we choose to live in fear, hiding from new experiences. The only constant in life is change. To be a lightworker, we cannot shirk back from new experiences regardless of how difficult they feel at times. It is our duty to move forward spreading love, joy and hope in each undertaking. By living in the light, we help ourselves and others around the world.
3. Call Forth the Light
You have been given Two Sacred Gifts at this time, which are tools to use in this mission:
1. Tradition:
You have received Past Life Training as Wisdom Keepers, Shamans and Priestesses that you can call forth into being. This is not your first lifetime here doing the work. As I am seeing in the auric bodies, we are evolving and becoming crystalline bodies of energy. Our auric fields are expanding which will allow us to interface on a greater level with the spiritual planes. With this ability, it becomes easier to access our higher self and recall the knowledge of previous lifetimes. In this lifetime, we are integrating all our of previous lifetimes and merging them into one, becoming a whole being on the mind, body and spirit level.
2. Good Luck and White Light Energy is returning.
Maximize this energy and use it now to your best and highest potential. With the retrogrades lifting, we are now entering the one of the strongest energetic times seen thus far in this century. The time period between June 2012 and December 2012 is incredibly powerful and used wisely this energy can be tapped into creating magnificent works. Don’t waste a minute of this time to co-create whatever you wish to achieve in this lifetime. What you create during this period will have long lasting effects for years to come.
June 2012 will soon be here, take the next two months to plan and prepare for the work that you wish to do as a lightworker and on a personal level to call into being in mid June. I’ll be writing more here soon about MidSummer and what you can do to prepare and usher in this tremendous powerful light energy. For more information regarding how your auric bodies are evolving, check out my book, The Awakened Aura: Experiencing the Evolution of Your Energy Body.
In love and light,
*~Kala~*
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 I have heard so many people say, “I give so much to my husband!” or “I give, and I give to my wife! Now I am ready to GET.”
What often happens is that we give from a place of depletion. This kind of approach is based on fear and survival, not true giving.
We turn into martyrs not because we are giving spirits but because we want to:
- Manipulate the situation
- Look good
- Get something in the process
It is really hard to see this when you are in the middle of it!
In all three situations, the motivation is not to be nice, but to do so for our own benefit. That is constriction and fear-based living.
Let’s look at that first point: manipulating the situation. Too often people make a choice that they don’t want to, so that they can:
a. Make someone else happy.
b. Prevent someone from getting mad at them.
What we forget is that WE CANNOT MAKE SOMEONE UNHAPPY. We can mess up and give people an opportunity to be unhappy, but ultimately, it is their decision.
Simply saying, “No”, can curb so many resentments. All you have to say is, “I am not available. I will let you know if that changes.”
2. Looking good. The martyr looks selfless, but is making sure that others see how much he or she is doing. What’s more he/she often keeps score—who isn’t helping when they should be.
When we do something in order to get brownie points for it, the motive is tainted with selfishness. It leaves little space for any good or positive feelings.
3.“Giving” in order to get something is a business arrangement. It involves scorekeeping and using one’s good deeds as leverage, or as a weapon, to GET.
In all of these cases, you can see how there isn’t really a giving quality, but a taking or getting quality that motivates.
Your Assignment:
Go back to the last time you felt you were giving too much. Look back at that time from a different perspective. Reflect on your motivations, were you giving because you wanted to? Or, because you wanted to look good, get something in return or manipulate a situation in your favor? No judgment! Simply see and breath and know that in the future you have a choice—truly giving or score keeping! |
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Kala Ambrose
As life these days continues to speed by in what I feel is almost equivalent to the speed of light, it’s important that we take the time to slow down, take a breath and gather our thoughts. The stressful hustle and bustle of this world can easily put us on edge and cause us to snap and act differently than we might have, had we had enough sleep, proper nutrition and an easier day than the one experienced.
With this in mind, this thought rolled out of me the other day. I printed it out and posted it on my wall and I thought you might enjoy it too, so here it is:
“We are all doing the best we can, as we can, with each day bringing its own set of challenges as we ourselves struggle to grow and be our best, while facing fatigue, emotional stress and other factors. Each of us have a story and are best served when we remember that about each other and respond with a gentle touch and compassion, which is easier to do some days over others. 
One other days, it’s just chaos and we have to roll with that too and let our wild child fly and be free.” – Kala Ambrose
 To help you along the path as you seek to go within and connect with your higher self and know who you are at a soul level, I created a series of Guided Meditations. Would you like to relax at the beach while getting in touch with your spirit guides? I created a 30 minuted Guided Meditation I call Spirit of Hawaii which is an inter-active meditation that has you visualizing the beautiful beach where you meet your spirit guide.
Sound like something you’d like to do? Spirit has guided me to offer this Meditation right now for FREE as a mp3 download on Explore Your Spirit. All you have to do is go to www.ExploreYourSpirit.com and subscribe to my free newsletter here on the website. Once you do, you’ll be taken to the page to download the free mp3 version of this Guided Meditation. Download and enjoy this weekend.
People often write to me to share that each time they listen to it, they have a new experience. I’d love to hear about your experience with this meditation, so go check it out and let me know how your virtual trip to the beautiful beach worked for you!
In great love, joy and abundance,
*~Kala~*
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I was livid. A coworker just relayed the news regarding the Trayvon Martin case and I stood there shocked, frustrated and then downright ticked off. Again?! It happened again?! And to make matters worse, everyone in America was aware of the perpetrator, but there had still been no arrest. Really?! I spent the rest of the day talking to and/or informing my students about the case and by the end of the day the sting had worn off…but not the frustration and later, the grief. As the Universe would have it, the strong reaction regarding the tragedy of Trayvon then invited more “stuff” which produced annoyance and utter frustration. I was in for a hell of a week. The next day a parent angrily waited for me to arrive to school to discuss her child’s detention. Rushing to make copies, I was slightly annoyed at the diversion of meeting this parent, and for the first time I might add, before I had time to mentally prep for my day. Nonetheless, I took it all in stride, showed her evidence of her child’s infraction, thereby satisfying her inquiry regarding the motivation behind the detention. Next! I then began to wonder what else should I be annoyed about? I then ran down the list of folks I had spoken to or had not and began to deduct points based on the frequency of their contact. By the end of the list, I was pretty pissed off yet again. Why hadn’t anyone from ATL called me? What was up with my besties and their lack of contact? Are we so caught up that we can’t pick up a phone and say hello? And then I started thinking about how if I was a man I’d hear from them ALL the time. My ex calls this “stinkin thinkin”. And appropriately so, because by the end of this mental rant your mood and perspective has completely changed and you are so far from radiating love that whatever you’re emitting reeks to the high heavens. It’s foul and your energy “odor” literally stinks.
Oh, but I didn’t stop there. The hits just kept on coming. During my planning I decided to respond to some pretty extreme texts my ex had sent. Twelve to be exact. I delayed responding simply because I didn’t want it to be done out of anger. I was hoping to get through to him some how and make him understand why it was time to go our separate ways. Well, I dial his number and get an error message that my service is shut off. Huh? I immediately check my bank account to see what is going on and notice someone’s been shopping online and it wasn’t me. There were purchases for Walmart.com, Apple Store, and some place called Trendy Readers. Wow! After calling the bank, they tell me that I have to cancel all my cards and file fraud claims. Ok, no problem. However, the lady then tells me that it will take five days to get my funds back. FIVE DAYS! Moreover, I can no longer use my cards and goodness knows how long it’ll be before I get the new one.
My phone carrier was absolutely no help. Because the bank declined the payment they refuse to restore service until I’ve paid them in full. Will you take a check? Lol. Of course the answer was no! But…I’m waiting for a call about a job. Sorry. But…I have a mastermind call on Sunday. Again, I’m so sorry. Sooo…no phone and no access to money since my bank is not local.
Now, in retrospect, I see exactly how I created all of that. And I acknowledge and accept my part in it all. It took silence to be able to see more clearly how I created undesirable experiences and emotions. Somewhere in the midst of all of that “stuff” I forgot to focus on love. Unconditional love of self, those around me, my loved ones and the world in general. In my solitude I have been able to see how these situations mirrored my own thoughts and actions. Solitude is powerful when you allow it to be. Oddly enough, I now see how my phone could have been used as a weapon of mass destruction. I was not going to leave my ex a nice message. Someone unavailable had started to call me again after I swore off unavailable men forever. And I probably would have gone out to meet friends, spending money that was not included in my now very strict budget. Yeah, Tmobile probably did me a favor.
There are going to be challenges. There are going to be things we must contend with on a daily basis that will rock us to the core or just give us a slight nudge. What makes the difference with it all is our response. Remembering to focus on love in spite of it all. Smooches!
       
Cynt Roberson
http://emittinglove.wordpress.com
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