The Dawn of a New Love

We are currently in a new Era…Love, Relationships and Relating are taking a turn. I can’t quite say where that turn is taking us yet–we are still very much at the cross-roads it seems.

We’ve been thinking about this a lot here at CR. There is a deep truth felt coursing through our blood when we speak of it. Matt and I have been having many conversations about the meaning of this new flow in the river of life.

We are pioneers exploring new frontiers of the heart, all of us pushing through to new paradigms of love.

Building new roles, new family models, new examples of what is possible in the personal arenas of the heart.

Being in the eye of the storm it’s hard to see what is being birthed, what it all will come to mean. We know things are changing, things must change. The world is in need of deep medicine, of profound healing.

The cause of the pain lies in ourselves, our human lineage has gifted us wondrous  prizes and harrowing pain. We are what we run from, and whom we run to.

There is nothing else.

What does this mean? That we are the answer, behold creators of our own reality.

That we must awaken to a better way. That we must internalize the truth of our connection to each other, to the world, to the universe, to the sacred, to the ALL.

What is the better way? Love.

Plain and simple.

We are afraid of it, we are in search for it, we need it, we want it and also shun it. The healing that must happen for all else to follow begins here, my friends. In the heart of Love.

It’s not difficult to notice that fear is kicking us in the ass (pardon my french) — holding us hostage. Claiming prisoners by the millions, and having a ball on our defeated souls. Every time we withhold love, every time we commit an unkind act, or give in to not doing our best, we give strength to this dark side of ourselves.

It is no coincidence that this is the age of the so-called “War on Terror.”

What is more terrifying than war? And what greater sign of the reign and prevalence of fear do we need than a “war” on terror? A war on Fear. But the terms of engagement are upside down. We are engaging fear with fear. Not all of us, I know, but the world is living a crucial time of choice, where we must stand up and chose. Challenge these terms of engagement.

In the Face of Fear, the Only Choice is Love.

You go nowhere battling Fear with Fear. Except destruction of ourselves, and our world.

From the vantage point of Fear, Love is an insane option. It looks akin to choosing death.

But from the vantage point of Love, Fear is the true insanity, and Love is a return to sanity.

Here in the Northern hemisphere, it’s the darkest time of the year now. Yet this period is also called the ‘Season of Lights’.

When the sun retreats from our sky, we must rely on ourselves and each other to shine the light that lies within our hearts.

While it seems that the world always wakes up to love, family and festivity during this season of light, it also sometimes feels contrived, commercialized. Like a spark forced into light for the sake of King Money. We’re holding out hope (and fighting with all we’ve got) that anything is possible including a human race that remembers All We Need Is Love.

Getting in the Way of Love; The (Not-so-Subtle) Mystery of Projection

One of the key learnings we’ve encountered on the path of conscious loving is how we tend to reject aspects of ourselves and react to those aspects as we encounter them in others. In other words, projection. Fear has a big hand in projection.

When you know of projection and watch the world with this key idea in mind, everything starts to make a whole lot more sense. From the folks on the bus to geopolitical firestorms, projection occurs at all levels of human existence.

And it is completely fascinating to see it in action.

Much of the fear, injustice, horror and misery of the world comes from one or another individual or group projecting their rejected bits onto someone else.

This is where the assertion that All You Need Is Love meets the actual work of learning to own all of our complex inner “stuff”–the good and the bad.

The next time you react to someone else and point the finger at them–because they’re crazy or out of control or ‘too this’ or ‘that’–keep projection in mind and humbly inquire as to whether you might be projecting.

Love takes Humility.

There’s an impersonality to it–it simply is, forever. Love in action and love in repose.

If we’re going to have a new age of love, then you and I must incubate and birth that new age right here in our respective hearts.

This blog is all about showing as many different points of entry into this inner love birthing process as possible.

Owning your projections and inquiring into the source of your self-rejection is one of the quickest ways we’ve discovered to short circuit the mad retreat from love that is fear’s favorite survival trick.

Don’t let fear trick you! Love yourself.

Go out there and make that change, with every ounce of your daily actions live with love, for yourself, for others, for the world.

Choose Love.

Fight the good fight, with all your heart.

This is no soppy love-ish fest…This is a real call to action, let’s get ourselves out there and “Be the Change”.

Let’s create a brave and loving new world together, one heart, one couple, one family, one community… one Love.

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A Quote from George Lucas

I read Kevin Kelly’s new book What Technology Wants a few weeks ago, and came across a powerful quote Kelly shared from an interview he had with George Lucas:

“If you watch the curve of science and everything we know, it shoots up like a rocket. We’re on this rocket and we’re going perfectly vertical into the stars. But the emotional intelligence of humankind is equally if not more important than our intellectual intelligence. We’re just as emotionally illiterate as we were 5,000 years ago; so emotionally our line is completely horizontal. The problem is the horizontal and the vertical are getting farther and farther apart. And as these things grow apart, there’s going to be some kind of consequence of that.” (pg. 196)

And a Mild Rebuttal…

The spirit of Mr. Lucas’ quote here is spot-on, but I do have to say: I don’t think humanity is as emotionally illiterate today as it was 5,000 years ago.

From Ken Wilber’s writings on the spectrum of consciousness and lines of development to the work of Wilhelm Reich, Carl Jung, Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks and many others, there is ample evidence for the argument that humans are in fact growing emotionally, or at least sure as heck trying to.  So we’re not “just as” emotionally illiterate today as we were 5,000 years ago.

But we may be “almost” as emotionally illiterate. Progress does indeed seem to be slow-going when it comes to inner and emotional human development!

And meanwhile, science and technology progress at an ever-increasing exponential rate.

It’s Time to Grow, And Fast

For anyone open to the picture painted in those words by George Lucas, the clear take-away is that we as human beings have an absolute ethical obligation to advance our emotional development as swiftly as possible. The future of our very species may well be at stake.

That’s why Claudia and I are sharing these things here at The Art of Creative Relationship.

We aren’t relationship experts. We’re just two people who have noticed the shocking disparity between our intellectual and emotional development and are trying to bridge the gap between them– and somehow, through our sharing, help others to grow and learn these much needed lessons.

We’re finding that, as difficult as it is to master physics and mathematics and engineering, it may well be much MUCH harder to master a healthy evolutionary relationship (or even our own emotional intelligence) so that we may grow into the best possible human beings we can be.

But How to Accelerate Our Emotional Development?

Thanks to the stuckness I mentioned when I got underway here, we’ve had to contend with this question without escape or release over the past month or so: how do we push through the challenges of emotional development? How do we overcome the at times overwhelming feelingIs of stuckness?

We recognized it was time to take on a new and much more active approach to pushing through the things that trip us up. But which approach to take? We are both avid ‘learners’ and have been for a long time studying all of the resources mentioned in our previous post (and many more), but still felt the need for extra help for getting through some of our stuckness issues.

After weighing our different options, we decided to seek the help outside of ourselves and decided on an expert in Imago Relationship Therapy.

Imago is one of the three approaches I mentioned in our last post that we’ve been embracing in order to harness the full evolutionary potential of our relationship.

Imago is too big to summarize here, but there are plenty of resources around the web you can consult if you’d like to learn more. The seminal introduction to the Imago approach is Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. We highly recommend this book, whether you are in a relationship or not.

With 2011 getting underway, we knew we wanted to take our work here at Creative Relationship to a new level. We want to master the skills that actually create love, trust and safety, and through our learning help YOU create your own amazing relationships and relating.

The good news is that there are some fantastic tools available for helping human beings increase their emotional intelligence.
The bad news is that emotional growth isn’t always easy, and I don’t know about you, but there are times when we can go  through some serious growing pains emotionally speaking.

What Do Relationship Challenges Mean?

As we’ve been pushing through this recent batch of stuckness, we’ve come right up against a central question that implicates modern society as a whole: what does it mean when problems crop up in our relationships?

Does it mean that a relationship is bad and should be discarded in exchange for a new one, or does it mean that something powerful and positive is happening deep below the surface as long-standing emotional wounds are being healed and released?

The answer to this question means everything for the continuation or dissolution of a relationship.

From a more Romantic perspective, relationships are all about the fire and passion and ease and perfect complementation of both partners for each other. And from this same perspective problems mean the relationship isn’t “meant to be” as it at first seemed.

But from a different perspective, challenges and difficulties within a relationship represent a natural evolutionary next-step in the process of two people learning to love one another and receive love in exchange.

In the Imago approach, there are four stages of relationship:

1. Attraction
2. Romance
3. Power Struggle
4. Mature Love

Within this four-part model of relationship, it is normal to go from all those amazing high-endorphin feelings of the beginnings of the relationship into a period where challenges and turmoil crop up. There’s nothing wrong with the power struggle–it is just another phase of the relationship as it moves from its exciting origins into the full flowering of its loving promise.

And (are you ready for this?) the power struggle can take up years… and actually, in most cases, the entire life of the relationship. Unless you get past it of course.

A New Direction

We’re now embarking on a journey of taking exponential leaps where our relationship is concerned, and teach you everything we learn and gather from this journey.

By working with the leading Imago Therapy expert in our city we plan to learn, master, the skills and techniques of the Imago Relationship Therapy approach…and we’re super excited to share what we learn along the way with you.

It’s high time we take our emotional growth seriously.

How else is humanity going to rise to the challenge of accelerating its emotional intelligence right alongside the exponential evolution of its technological and intellectual intelligence?

And in our case, right now, that looks like heading into our second session of Imago Relationship Therapy this afternoon to continue pushing through the challenges and confusions that have tripped us up intermittently over the course of our time together.

We hope you’ll accompany us on this journey and share how you’re embracing emotional growth in your life. We can’t stress enough how important it is to keep in mind the ‘normalness’ of troubles in a relationship…but you CAN get past them, you CAN build the relating and relationship that you dream of…and this goal is just as important (or in our opinion, more than) as anything else in your life.

Together, we can keep pooling our wisdom and resources to master the emotional challenges of this quantum leap moment in human history.

I love Truth.

The big Truths with the capitol T, and the little truths. Big “universal law” kinds of truth, and the little “it was me who broke the glass” kinds of truth.

And I love Love.

Love is central, it’s essential, fundamental.

Consequently I love truth-tellers, I admire people that speak and act with complete sincerity and candor. In fact, I have no qualms with politically incorrect speech, or social rudeness of any kind, when it is a result of someone speaking their truth or living their truth.

Now, that doesn’t mean I approve of, or support downright meanness–I just believe that you can speak your truth without intentionally hurting anyone, and whether your speech modality is rough or refined is a less important factor.

I really believe truth is a virtue that can save the world and certainly at least change the world. And absolutely change one’s life. Our dealings with each other would be entirely different if only the perfect truth were always employed–always.

Imagine that!

All kinds of historical events, wars, political affairs and well, just society in general, would be different, would have transpired differently. A parallel truthful world! (is it almost a creepy, bizarre idea–this “all truth-telling world”!?)

I’m not saying that I’ve never lied, or that I don’t continue to have a difficult time with refraining from telling the social ‘white lies.’ It seems that we, the humans, all come equipped with the “lie gene.” It just depends how little (or much) one wants to activate it. But the point is, I love the feeling of speaking my truth and living my truth; it’s just clean, real, and like an apple, good for anybody and everybody.

Telling the truth is in some ways much like an art.

You can refine your delivery and verbal expression, perfect it, dive deep into the implication of your message and its effect on those around you. You can tell the truth like a pro, a master, letting your words and your actions be a simple transparent gift to yourself and the world. You can use your truth to reveal, to elevate, to uphold.

It all begins with yourself; how authentic you are with yourself, and how strong you are in facing your inner worlds. The courage with which you speak your truths and sometimes the ‘brutal’ truths. Sounds simple, yes–but it’s not always easy.

In our journey of learning to craft a conscious and co-creative relationship, Matt and I decided that we would endeavor to apply in our lives what the Hendricks point out in ‘Conscious Loving‘ as a fundamental requirement in a relationship–the Microscopic Truth. They define the microscopic truth as, “when you speak the truth about your internal experience as you are currently perceiving it.”

In other words, speaking the truth about what you are experiencing and feeling inside in an indisputable manner. Expressing what you are feeling physically, and going deeper than that to also express the real inner source of your feelings. Not always an easy thing to do, because there can be many layers of emotion and the sources of these may be buried mighty deep.

It goes something like this, “I just felt a sharp pain in my heart area, and experienced a rush of anger when you told me that you were coming home late. Thoughts of you having more fun with your friends than with me flew into my head, thoughts of you leaving me…and consequently I felt angry at you.”

Now, just a few crucial points about how all this works:

1) First of all, emotions and thoughts connected to them can surface in split seconds. In fact, a variety of emotions can happen all at the same time, in a rush that might sometimes feel confusing or overwhelming. Sometimes keeping your wits about you, not reacting in a rash manner, seems impossible. Here it is wise to cultivate the virtue of patience, breathe deep, don’t let the river of emotions grab you and take you. (This is a difficult one for me–I confess I’m usually more of the reactive type!)

2) Secondly, timing is essential. It’s important to tell the truth right there and then, just as it is happening inside of you. Note the above point of not reacting, not exploding, accusing or blaming. Just a calm and truthful sharing of what happened inside of you and where it came from; entirely transparent, not coated with ego and also not concealing anything.

Timing is essential because by telling your truth as it is happening, you are not allowing for any resentment to grow, you are not giving your mind time to create mind-fantasies, you are not allowing a negative feeling to fester, you’re not dwelling on, or eating your heart out about something until it explodes in an angry outburst later on.

3) You are speaking about “an internal experience as you are currently perceiving it.”

This means that you are expressing the physical aspect of your truth as well as the mental and emotional aspects. This is something that we are not all used to doing, and in fact is something that a lot of people have trouble with.

Expressing where your pain is felt in your body might be unusual, it might take practice to become aware of its locality. But it is always there. You might feel sadness as a tight feeling in your chest, or fear as your stomach muscles cramping up, or a fluttering feeling in your stomach, a difficulty in breathing. It is a good thing to become conscious and aquainted with how our bodies react and what they are telling us.

4) Transparency is the other essential component of the Microscopic Truth; this means revealing ALL of it. Not just part of what you are feeling.

This is where you become vulnerable and tell parts of the truth that you don’t usually tell.

It might be easy to express that you are angry, but much more difficult to express that you are angry because you fear being abandoned. Go even deeper and express even more; your angry reaction was the top of the iceberg that covered a feeling of being abandoned because you have been feeling worthless and ugly of late.

This is where you leave your ego behind and reveal yourself in your naked truth. We don’t usually do this because of fear of giving our power away, or embarrassment, or pride…ego.

Telling your partner (or anyone else) the full transparent truth about what you physically, mentally, and emotionally experience can be a profoundly healing event precisely because you are being vulnerable. You are not covering things up, letting things accumulate. You are feeling and ‘freeing’  your inner self. You are sharing your inner events exactly as they are being felt by you in all their depth.

Our experience has been that living by the Microscopic Truth is not always easy. Matt and I certainly trip up and fall. Sometimes it’s difficult to remember to speak it right away, sometimes it’s difficult not to blame or make excuses, sometimes it’s hard to be so vulnerable, at other times it’s hard to let go of ego.

But it’s always worth it.

Being as open and honest as we possibly can be has taught Matt and I much about ourselves and each other. It takes courage to grow and face oneself and the world with the highest truth in heart, mind and word.

We will keep learning to live by the Microscopic truth, continue to grow and hopefully become artists and masters of our truths.

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Claudia

http://www.creativerelationship.com

Today is Thanksgiving in the United States, and gratitude is making its way through the blogosphere.

In a recent post on my String Love Guitar blog, I mentioned Masoru Emoto’s surprising book Messages from Water and the Universe.

If you don’t know Emoto, then welcome to a thoroughly unique and amazing body of work from this Japanese scientist, artist and philosopher.

Basically, he and his team freeze water and take photos of the water crystals that form.

He’s been doing this since the mid-1990′s.

Over time, across thousands of water crystal photographing sessions, he documented the impact different factors had on the structure of the water crystals.

Turns out, all kinds of different factors play into the appearance of the crystals of water.

Water from natural pristine sources appears symmetrical, highly detailed and intricate.

Water from polluted sources appears amorphous, blob-like and distorted.

But, for a man and a team to spend years and thousands of hours continuing to photograph water, there would have to be some extra-interesting things going on.

Water is Listening

If you buy into the results of Emoto’s research, then it seems water’s structure changes in direct response to human intention.

I’m not trying to replicate Emoto’s work here–so read his books, and in particular, read Messages from Water and the Universe.

One of the most surprising ideas presented in Messages emerged from Emoto’s selection of the most beautiful water crystal among all the crystals he’s photographed.

In his opinion, this crystal–which had the words love and gratitude written on the vessel it was in before being photographed–is the most beautiful of all the water crystals he’s seen.

He then delves into the mystery of reality he believes is unveiled by the beauty of this particular crystal.

Love and Gratitude. Gratitude and Love.

Two fundamental building blocks of the universe. But in what proportion?

To answer that question, Emoto looked once again to water and noticed its 2:1 H2O composition and leapt to this insight: in the universe, the proper proportion of Gratitude to Love is 2 to 1.

2x Gratitude, 1x Love

Maybe I’ve lost you by now.

Maybe you’re dashing right back out the way you found yourself onto this blog post.

But maybe you feel the intuitive sense of this strange idea Emoto has proffered.

2 to 1. Gratitude giving rise to Love.

Love and Gratitude dancing in continual conversation.

Happy Thanksgiving

Although Thanksgiving has its origins in the myth of the founding of the United States, I envision a time not too far off when Thanksgiving is adopted as a universal human holiday.

We could use one of those–a day when all the world is united in a grateful direction.

Thanksgiving just may be one of the truly great gifts bestowed on the world by the United States. An entire day focused on Gratitude. A 24-hour period in which the entire point of the day is for humans to slow down and dwell as deeply in gratitude as possible.

Let’s Be Grateful Together

Apologies if you’re reading this in a country other than the United States. Claudia shares your perspective as a relative newcomer to U.S. soil.

And yet, we’ve worked to transcend the nationalism of Thanksgiving and instead connect to the sacred essence at this holiday’s core.

Gratitude and Love go hand in hand.

We spend a lot of time around here at Creative Relationship talking about Love.

It’s good to remember that every Love stands on a stable foundation of double the gratitude.

The Value of an Eternal Reference Point

One of the things I’ve come to appreciate most about Gratitude is the fact that it’s always in order.

I can’t think of a single possible moment in all of eternity in which gratitude would have no place.

No matter how bad things get, gratitude is ever-present and always applicable. The most miserable, horrific moment contains sprinkled kernels of gratitude. Because all of this, every moment, every experience, everything is a gift.

If you look, you can always find something for which to feel grateful.

This is an extraordinary thing to discover–something unchanging in this world of change.

I want to build my life, and my heart, on stable foundations.

Gratitude is one of the core building blocks of the Universe, and it’s therefore also one of the major building blocks of a true human life.

The further we drift from gratitude, the more confused we become.

So, for now, let’s be grateful we have a Thanksgiving Day. I don’t really know about the turkey or the football or the odd tale of Pilgrims and Indians getting together for a harvest banquet.

But I know we’re on the right track with giving a whole day over to Gratitude.

Maybe sometime soon, we’ll expand this one day to include a week. And then a month. And then a lifetime.

But for now, for today–it’s Thanksgiving.

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Claudia

http://www.creativerelationship.com

Let your guard down and start coasting, and you’re very liable to find yourself in sudden trouble.

It’s like driving in that way. Or playing with cobras. Or walking a tightrope.

So here’s the big question that we’ve had to contend with across the course of our journey toward conscious loving: how do you actually apply the lessons when things get tough?

It’s all well and good to practice solid positive relationship principles when things are good and easy. When the honeymoon’s full and shining, when the love is flowing and glowing, when our sails are full of life’s good graces–when relationship feels effortless, you almost don’t need to worry about telling the microscopic truth or holding strong to your commitment or pruning out unhelpful beliefs.

And it’s when things are hard that we most need to pull on the wisdom of what works to help us through those tough moments.

I’m writing this, now, because I know that we all go through the full roller coaster that relationships open up in our lives.

I’ve never met a single person whose relationships were always exactly the same.

Human beings are complex, and when you put two human beings together, you get exponential complexity.

That’s exponential moodiness, exponential drama, exponential possibility.

And trying to craft a healthy, positive, passionate relationship can be very, very hard.

We know that difficult things make us stronger–look at your life and tell me the story of how all the hardships you’ve endured have softened your heart and enhanced your muscles. Tell me the tale of your accumulated wisdom and I’ll hear the tale of all the troubles you’ve transcended.

So, what do we do when things are hard in our relationships?

Are there any teachings or perspectives that can help us withstand the difficulties that crop up in relationships and actually come out closer than we were when we started?

I don’t have all the answers. But I have been experimenting in the intense space of intimate relationship long enough to have picked up some good pointers for what works and what doesn’t.

And here is the single most important tactic I’ve discovered for weathering the stormy intensities that sometimes engulf our relationships:

Race for Responsibility

When things start going South, it’s time for you to step up and admit that, somehow, someway, you’ve created This. Whatever this is, no matter how much it feels like it’s THEM.

If you are anything like me, then it will take you a long time and many missteps before you even begin to make immediate, total responsibility your usual MO.

The alternative to taking responsibility is to engage in blame.

Blame is what most folks around the world do when things go wrong.

Surely I don’t need to list off examples of blaming from our public world of politics and history.

When a misunderstanding, disagreement or full-blown argument breaks out in your relationship, how would the turbulence appear if you adopted the position of hunting around to see how you helped to create the experience? Race to take responsibility rather than racing towards the ‘victim’ position.

The next time you find yourself in a disagreement with a loved one, what if, instead of basically thinking that it was all their fault for acting totally crazy, you instead stopped, took a deep breath and owned up to the fact that somehow, someway, you created this. You did it. You invited it either through something you did or something you didn’t do.

Taking responsibility seems simple (and threatening), but it’s taking me a long time to figure it out and apply it consistently.

I fail repeatedly.

My thoughts veer toward blaming Claudia for something difficult that we’re going through.

And the only way out, I’m increasingly realizing, is to take responsibility for exactly my 100% of the experience we’re undergoing.

Invulneresponsibility

One of the major reasons we don’t naturally assume responsibility for 100% of our side of whatever difficult experience we’ve created in our lives is the fear that we’ll be somehow hurt by assuming responsibility.

Nobody wants to be judged or mistreated. And the idea is that if you take responsibility for the difficult things that occur in your relationship, you’ll be stuck holding the hot potato of guilt.

So I’m here to give you a little reassurance–it doesn’t work that way.

Sometimes, taking responsibility may make your life more complicated and, yes, painful.

Steadily, however, taking on the responsibility for creating the experiences–difficult and easy–that occur in your life will attract to you a quality of person who can hold their side of the responsibility equation right there with you.

You’ll leave behind the blamers who dodge any form of owning their side of things, and you’ll find yourself enjoying the quality of relationships that come with people who race to take responsibility for the things that happen in the relationship–particularly the difficult things.

The Magic of Responsibility

I recently read David Deida’s The Way of the Superior Man.

In his book, author Deida presents a pretty intense vision of manhood in which the male must show up and love his woman through anything and everything difficult that arises.

In fact, Deida takes it so far as to push the man to take full responsibility for loving his woman especially when she is revealing her wrathful side, which is a direct response to his weakness and failure to love her fully, deeply, totally.

I’m, of course, still very much working on applying the lessons presented by this book.

But I can see that I have a long way to go to really master the fine art of cutting through whatever difficulties my partner presents to me in order to bring her back to feeling loved and appreciated no matter the difficulties we encounter.

Get Over Wishing Things Were Easy

Ultimately, how we navigate the tough times in our relationships comes down to our orientation toward the Tough that we encounter in life.

Do you resent difficulty and challenge? Do you wish it away?

Somehow, our job here on Earth is to learn to say Yes to whatever Is.

Say yes to it. And then, go one better–invite it. Welcome whatever Is and thank it for the lessons it has to teach.

ESPECIALLY the difficult moments and challenging lessons.

Taking responsibility is what saying yes looks like. It is standing up to the blasts of fear and pain and allowing them to wash over you without hiding.

And it is, as far as I can tell, the only point of entry that will allow you to actually begin making headway in releasing yourself from the chains of your past traumas and negative conditioning.

I dream of a world in which taking responsibility comes as naturally and easily as breathing, drinking and eating.

I invite you to join me in this wild terrifying adventure of being vulnerable and exposed as we stand tall and own our roles in whatever we’re experiencing personally, in our relationships and in the world of global humanity.

Next time you’re engulfed in a tough moment, say yes to it by taking responsibility for your role in creating it and see what sorts of new pathways open up thanks to your willingness to own what you’re experiencing.

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Claudia

http://www.creativerelationship.com