So, I am a big believer in the existence of opposing polarities. It’s not that things exist separately but that the world is divided into opposing forces which exist interdependently with one another.

The feminine and masculine tend to reside at opposing ends of the spectrum. The feminine shines, she excites, she intoxicates, she inspires. The masculine drives, controls, creates functionality, stabilizes and moves things forward.

We think of them as separate in our religiously inspired dualistic minds. But, each are here to balance the other. They are both equally necessary and the world is best when both are working in equal measure.

Much of what we see in the world today, its structure, its technology, its thought processes, would not be here if it were not for the overwhelming influence of the masculine force and its drive to create and improve everything it sees and touches.

The masculine is never truly comfortable unless it is building something, improving, moving in the direction of a goal. The feminine in most cases would much prefer play over work. She encourages us to go out and dance the night way, or to release our tension in a fit of blissful ecstasy.

The feminine is content to simply shine her light in radiance while the masculine is not content unless it is following that light in the direction of its own purpose. Men are creators, pursuers of those things that are to bring freedom, contentment, and stability to our lives.

But, in so many ways, men are no longer men. The masculine need to move has not been acted upon by many of our fathers, husbands, sons, significant others.

As men we are no longer living with purpose. And, we ignore the feminine when it calls us to something higher. We want to experience the feminine but we do not want to bring ourselves to a point where we are deserving of the gifts she wishes to give.

We are no longer worthy. We are angry, depressed, and lifeless.

This truly is my opinion. It is understandable because in a lot of ways, the masculine as an overall experience has been beaten down by over protective mothers and controlling wives.

And, over the millenia, it has become too far driven by the ego. By a need to exploit and control.

With the coming shift in cosmic consciousness, I think we are coming to a balance between what the masculine and feminine offer. This is so important because it is only when the many opposing forces work together that the world can truly come to its fruition.

It is an exciting time to be alive. To see what is being created in the caverns of cosmic consciousness is really intensely exciting. But, we have to get our act together. As men, we have to rediscover what makes us men. We have to find our purpose. We have to reclaim responsibility for our lives and those of our companions.

We have to stop wallowing in the pain of rejection, fear, emotional tension, and bondage. We have to stop begging our women to love us and begin showing them why we deserve their love.

If you are having problems in your relationship to your woman it is because you have let her down in some way. You have lost site of your purpose.

Our lovers are constantly testing us, prodding us, to see where we are, if we are conscious, awake and listening. They want to know that we are ready to protect them. They want to know that we are capable of providing them the strength that they require to feel safe in the world.

The measure of a man is his ability to remain calm and undisturbed in the face of the obstacles that the world throws his way.

The purpose of the feminine is to inspire us toward an understanding and a pursuing of our ultimate purpose. But, not before she tests us to make sure we are awake.

I say, stop reacting to the emotional displays your woman throws at you. Stop trying to help her through her problems with your logic. Begin, loving her truly. Love your woman from the deepest parts of yourself and you will find that that is the only thing she truly needs.

Be the space within which your woman can shine. You have to provide her that space. Her energy just is. It is here. She draws us in and offers us so much.

But unless we remain steadfast and single pointed on our purpose we will never be worthy of her gifts.

Peace, Love, Light!

Michael Angelica
http://hackingthebodymind.com

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