I've been thinking about timing a lot lately. I feel a ton of internal pressure to get out in the world and do something! To become an inspirational speaker, to relaunch my business, etc. I'm surrounded by these messages all the time: “carpe diem,” “you'll never feel fully ready to do something,” “you won't be great when you first start, but you must start in order to be great,” etc. Everyone everywhere seems to be saying to me, “Get in the game, and get in the game now.”
On the other hand, I have resistance. Not due to fear, but a nagging sensation now is not the right time. I still have to take a nap every day. I tire out easily. I have lots of responsibilities and things on my plate at the moment. Do those sound like excuses? Maybe they are, but again, I keep thinking about timing.
|Is it super cliche that I'm using a picture of a surfer when talking about being in rhythm with the universe?|
We're coming upon the eight year anniversary of my move to San Francisco, on Valentine's Day in fact. I think about how I moved out here and then it took me seven months to find a job and a place to live. That may not seem like a lot right now considering the state of our economy, but not having stable income or
a place to live for that long was challenging to say the least.
I bring this up because so often I find myself jumping into something and then getting overwhelmed and backpedaling only to pick it up later. This has happened to me over and over again. I have a theory about why this is the case for me. My spiritual teacher says, “Each and every created entity – whether crude, subtle, or causal – is vibrational and rhythmic. … The collective rhythms of all the rhythms emanating every moment from the countless objects of the cosmic imagination is called 'universal rhythm.'”
My theory is that due to my highly intuitive nature, I'm peering ahead and picking up on the vibration and rhythm of something in the future, but not the present. And the reason things don't work out when I want them to is because the rhythms and vibrations haven't matched up yet. Here's a great example. One of the first jobs I applied for in San Francisco was at a medical magazine. I felt sure
I was going to get the job. On a deep level I knew
I was going to work for that company, so when they turned me down, I was shocked, surprised, and confused. Here's the funny thing though: seven months later I applied for a different job at a different magazine within the same company and got it.
What I'm saying here is that old adage “timing is everything,” is an adage for a reason. As much as I want to get out in the world and do stuff, it's also important for me to acknowledge some things are out of my hands. That if I try too soon it's like entering a bouncy house at the exact wrong moment: I'll get bounced out. As much as I hate having to say this, and believe me, I do, what I'm coming to realize is patience is required of me sometimes. Sure, I can jump in, but my personal experience is I feel traumatized and it takes me a while to lick my wounds before I want to try again. Wouldn't it be better for me to wait and pick my moment? To start bouncing in the house smoothly and seamlessly? To align my rhythm with the universe's?
I dream of a world where we understand there is a natural rhythm and timing to everything in nature, including us. A world where we understand we have to be in sync with the vibration and rhythm of what we want before the entry is smooth. A world where we remember it's still true: timing is everything.
Another world is not only possible, it's probable.